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December

I heard a bird sing In the dark of December.
A magical thing And sweet to remember.
“We are nearer to Spring Than we were in September,”
I heard a bird sing In the dark of December.

Oliver Herford

As with several of the months before it, the name for December is retained from the older ten-month calendar relying on the Latin word decem meaning ten. The number ten represents the end of one cycle and the beginning of another.  It has the completeness of 1 followed by 0 combining both the male and the female.  It is the full course of life and we have come full circle.  It is indeed an ending, the completion of a full year.  There is a sadness that sometimes goes with that, especially if we feel fondly about the year that is closing.  Tradition has us mask that sadness with grand celebrations, and while that is fun, there is something to be learned from the letting go.  Reflect, honor, and prepare to release this year.  A warm goodbye may do us a world of good.

Birth Customs for December

December Flower

As the days grow dark and cold
On slender stalks, I do behold
A fragrant bloom of paperwhite
To brighten up December’s night

December Zodiac

Sagittarius shooting strong
As December comes along
But in the darkest of the days
Its Capricorn who finds a way

December Stone

If cold December gave you birth
The month of snow and ice and mirth
Place on your hand a turquoise blue;
Success will bless whate’er you do.

The Magic of December

Correspondences

Herbs: Holly, Fir, Mistletoe
Totems: Deer, Mouse
Stones: Danburite, Selenite, Blue Barite
Birthstone: Turquoise
Birth Flower: Paperwhite
Celtic Trees: Rowen & Alder
Nature Spirits: Snow Faries

Spellwork

Reflect
Ebb
Release
Appreciate
Rest

Aromatherapy

Winter Wonder

4 drops Peppermint
3 drops Orange
3 drops Cypress

Meditation

There’s no clear water from a muddy well. All you can do is let the silt settle until the water clears.

Patrick Rothfuss

Science of December

Astronomy

Name: December
Length: 31 Days
Full Moon: December 12th
Geminids Meteor Shower: December 13-14th
Winter Solstice: December 22nd
New Moon: December 26th
Annular Solar Eclipse: December 26th
Zodiac: Sagittarius & Capricorn

Full Moon

Colonial American: Christmas Moon
Celtic: Cold Moon
Chinese: Bitter Moon
Dakota Sioux: Twelfth Moon
Old English: Oak Moon

Poetry for December

In Drear Nighted December

In drear nighted December,
Too happy, happy tree,
Thy branches ne’er remember
Their green felicity—
The north cannot undo them
With a sleety whistle through them
Nor frozen thawings glue them
From budding at the prime.

In drear-nighted December,
Too happy, happy brook,
Thy bubblings ne’er remember
Apollo’s summer look;
But with a sweet forgetting,
They stay their crystal fretting,
Never, never petting About the frozen time.

Ah! would ‘twere so with many
A gentle girl and boy—
But were there ever any
Writh’d not of passed joy?
The feel of not to feel it,
When there is none to heal it
Nor numbed sense to steel it,
Was never said in rhyme.

John Keats

Sonnet 97

How like a winter hath my absence been
From thee, the pleasure of the fleeting year!
What freezings have I felt, what dark days seen!
What old December’s bareness everywhere!
And yet this time remov’d was summer’s time,
The teeming autumn, big with rich increase,
Bearing the wanton burthen of the prime,
Like widow’d wombs after their lords’ decease:
Yet this abundant issue seem’d to me
But hope of orphans and unfather’d fruit;
For summer and his pleasures wait on thee,
And thou away, the very birds are mute;
Or if they sing, ’tis with so dull a cheer
That leaves look pale, dreading the winter’s near.

William Shakespeare

Love and Friendship

Love is like the wild rose-briar,
Friendship like the holly-tree —
The holly is dark when the rose-briar blooms
But which will bloom most contantly?
The wild-rose briar is sweet in the spring,
Its summer blossoms scent the air;
Yet wait till winter comes again
And who wil call the wild-briar fair?
Then scorn the silly rose-wreath now
And deck thee with the holly’s sheen,
That when December blights thy brow
He may still leave thy garland green.

Emily Brontë

In Tempore Senectutis

When I am old
I will not have you look apart
From me, into the cold,
Friend of my heart,
Nor be sad in your remembrance
Of the careless, mad-heart semblance
That the wind hath blown away
When I am old.

When I am old
And the white hot wonder-fire
Unto the world seem cold,
My soul’s desire
Know you then that all life’s shower,
The rain of the years, that hour
Shall make blow for us one flower,
Including all, when we are old.

When I am old
If you remember
Any love save what is then
Hearth light unto life’s December
Be your joy of past sweet chalices
To know then naught but this
“How many wonders are less sweet
Than love I bear to thee
When I am old.”

Ezra Pound

Calendar of December

December 4th: National Sock Day

The word ‘sock’ comes from the Old English word socc, meaning light slipper which came from the Latin soccus, a low-heeled shoe, and that from the Ancient Greek word sykchos another kind of light shoe. The Ancient Greeks called socks called piloi, which is where we get the expression Hoi polloi meaning the masses, or really something like all those socks. Socks feature prominently in December as warming footwear, holiday gifts, and National Sock Day.

December 13th: Hot Chocolate Day

Cocoa was such a luxury item that it was given as part of a dowry when Royal Family members married in Europe. By the 17th century, it was a morning drink for the wealthy, enjoyed in bed to break the fast. This means that Hot Chocolate is historically a breakfast drink, and what a fine idea that is. Go ahead and ring the bell for your servants and indulge in a little bit of history on National Hot Chocolate Day.

December 15th: Gingerbread Day

Gingerbread, often flavored with spices like ginger, cloves, nutmeg or cinnamon and sweetened with honey, sugar or molasses can vary widely in its texture and purpose. Ranging from a soft, moist loaf cake to a ginger snap cookie. Referenced in Fairytales like Hansel and Gretel or The Gingerbread Man, this delicious treat has been used in narratives for ages. On Gingerbread Decorating Day, make up your own tale as you create and eat your words.

November 21st: Winter Solstice

Winter Solstice is the shortest day of the year and the longest night of the year. Also called midwinter, it occurs in the Northern hemisphere when the Northern pole is tilted at its maximum angle away from the Sun. Symbolically, it marked the death and subsequent rebirth of the Sun. It is often celebrated by bringing light, such as candles to brighten up the darkness.

December 23rd: Game Day

What is your family’s game? We play lots of cards, but additionally, each person has a specialty. Simba has an uncanny way with Stratego, Crush is hard to beat at Catan, Megara rules Rummikub, and Aladdin brought us Exploding Kittens. Games give us a chance to slow down, laugh, talk with each other, and create wonderful memories. Put these longer evenings to good use with some epic tournaments.

Calendar of December

December 4th

The word ‘sock’ comes from the Old English word socc, meaning light slipper which came from the Latin soccus, a low-heeled shoe, and that from the Ancient Greek word sykchos another kind of light shoe.  The Ancient Greeks called socks called piloi, which is where we get the expression Hoi polloi meaning the masses, or really something like all those socks.  Socks feature prominently in December as warming footwear, holiday gifts, and National Sock Day.

December 13th

Cocoa was such a luxury item that it was given as part of a dowry when Royal Family members married in Europe. By the 17th century, it was a morning drink for the wealthy, enjoyed in bed to break the fast.  This means that Hot Chocolate is historically a breakfast drink, and what a fine idea that is.  Go ahead and ring the bell for your servants and indulge in a little bit of history on National Hot Chocolate Day.

December 15th

Gingerbread, often flavored with spices like ginger, cloves, nutmeg or cinnamon and sweetened with honey, sugar or molasses can vary widely in its texture and purpose. Ranging from a soft, moist loaf cake to a ginger snap cookie.  Referenced in Fairytales like Hansel and Gretel or The Gingerbread Man, this delicious treat has been used in narratives for ages.  On Gingerbread Decorating Day, make up your own tale as you create and eat your words. 

December 21th

Winter Solstice is the shortest day of the year and the longest night of the year.  Also called midwinter, it occurs in the Northern hemisphere when the Northern pole is tilted at its maximum angle away from the Sun.   Symbolically. it marked the death and subsequent rebirth of the Sun.  It is often celebrated by bringing light, such as candles to brighten up the darkness.

November 23rd

What is your family’s game?  We play lots of cards, but additionally, each person has a specialty.  Simba has an uncanny way with Stratego, Crush is hard to beat at Catan, Megara rules Rummikub, and Aladdin brought us Exploding Kittens.  Games give us a chance to slow down, laugh, talk with each other, and create wonderful memories.  Put these longer evenings to good use with some epic tournaments.

Poems of December
Love and Friendship

Love is like the wild rose-briar,
Friendship like the holly-tree —
The holly is dark when the rose-briar blooms
But which will bloom most contantly?
The wild-rose briar is sweet in the spring,
Its summer blossoms scent the air;
Yet wait till winter comes again
And who wil call the wild-briar fair?
Then scorn the silly rose-wreath now
And deck thee with the holly’s sheen,
That when December blights thy brow
He may still leave thy garland green.

By Emily Brontë

Sonnet 97

How like a winter hath my absence been
From thee, the pleasure of the fleeting year!
What freezings have I felt, what dark days seen!
What old December’s bareness everywhere!
And yet this time remov’d was summer’s time,
The teeming autumn, big with rich increase,
Bearing the wanton burthen of the prime,
Like widow’d wombs after their lords’ decease:
Yet this abundant issue seem’d to me
But hope of orphans and unfather’d fruit;
For summer and his pleasures wait on thee,
And thou away, the very birds are mute;
Or if they sing, ’tis with so dull a cheer
That leaves look pale, dreading the winter’s near.

By William Shakespeare

In Tempore Senectutis

When I am old
I will not have you look apart
From me, into the cold,
Friend of my heart,
Nor be sad in your remembrance
Of the careless, mad-heart semblance
That the wind hath blown away
When I am old.

When I am old
And the white hot wonder-fire
Unto the world seem cold,
My soul’s desire
Know you then that all life’s shower,
The rain of the years, that hour
Shall make blow for us one flower,
Including all, when we are old.

When I am old
If you remember
Any love save what is then
Hearth light unto life’s December
Be your joy of past sweet chalices
To know then naught but this
“How many wonders are less sweet
Than love I bear to thee
When I am old.”

By Ezra Pound

In Drear Nighted December

In drear nighted December,
Too happy, happy tree,
Thy branches ne’er remember
Their green felicity—
The north cannot undo them
With a sleety whistle through them
Nor frozen thawings glue them
From budding at the prime.

In drear-nighted December,
Too happy, happy brook,
Thy bubblings ne’er remember
Apollo’s summer look;
But with a sweet forgetting,
They stay their crystal fretting,
Never, never petting About the frozen time.

Ah! would ‘twere so with many
A gentle girl and boy—
But were there ever any
Writh’d not of passed joy?
The feel of not to feel it,
When there is none to heal it
Nor numbed sense to steel it,
Was never said in rhyme.

By John Keats

The Raven

Once upon a midnight dreary, while I pondered, weak and weary,
Over many a quaint and curious volume of forgotten lore—
While I nodded, nearly napping, suddenly there came a tapping,
As of some one gently rapping, rapping at my chamber door.
“’Tis some visitor,” I muttered, “tapping at my chamber door—
Only this and nothing more.”

Ah, distinctly I remember it was in the bleak December;
And each separate dying ember wrought its ghost upon the floor.
Eagerly I wished the morrow;—vainly I had sought to borrow
From my books surcease of sorrow—sorrow for the lost Lenore—
For the rare and radiant maiden whom the angels name Lenore—
Nameless here for evermore.

And the silken, sad, uncertain rustling of each purple curtain
Thrilled me—filled me with fantastic terrors never felt before;
So that now, to still the beating of my heart, I stood repeating
“’Tis some visitor entreating entrance at my chamber door—
Some late visitor entreating entrance at my chamber door;—
This it is and nothing more.”

Presently my soul grew stronger; hesitating then no longer,
“Sir,” said I, “or Madam, truly your forgiveness I implore;
But the fact is I was napping, and so gently you came rapping,
And so faintly you came tapping, tapping at my chamber door,
That I scarce was sure I heard you”—here I opened wide the door;—
Darkness there and nothing more.

Deep into that darkness peering, long I stood there wondering, fearing,
Doubting, dreaming dreams no mortal ever dared to dream before;
But the silence was unbroken, and the stillness gave no token,
And the only word there spoken was the whispered word, “Lenore?”
This I whispered, and an echo murmured back the word, “Lenore!”—
Merely this and nothing more.

Back into the chamber turning, all my soul within me burning,
Soon again I heard a tapping somewhat louder than before.
“Surely,” said I, “surely that is something at my window lattice;
Let me see, then, what thereat is, and this mystery explore—
Let my heart be still a moment and this mystery explore;—
’Tis the wind and nothing more!”

Open here I flung the shutter, when, with many a flirt and flutter,
In there stepped a stately Raven of the saintly days of yore;
Not the least obeisance made he; not a minute stopped or stayed he;
But, with mien of lord or lady, perched above my chamber door—
Perched upon a bust of Pallas just above my chamber door—
Perched, and sat, and nothing more.

Then this ebony bird beguiling my sad fancy into smiling,
By the grave and stern decorum of the countenance it wore,
“Though thy crest be shorn and shaven, thou,” I said, “art sure no craven,
Ghastly grim and ancient Raven wandering from the Nightly shore—
Tell me what thy lordly name is on the Night’s Plutonian shore!”
Quoth the Raven “Nevermore.”

Much I marvelled this ungainly fowl to hear discourse so plainly,
Though its answer little meaning—little relevancy bore;
For we cannot help agreeing that no living human being
Ever yet was blessed with seeing bird above his chamber door—
Bird or beast upon the sculptured bust above his chamber door,
With such name as “Nevermore.”

But the Raven, sitting lonely on the placid bust, spoke only
That one word, as if his soul in that one word he did outpour.
Nothing farther then he uttered—not a feather then he fluttered—
Till I scarcely more than muttered “Other friends have flown before—
On the morrow he will leave me, as my Hopes have flown before.”
Then the bird said “Nevermore.”

Startled at the stillness broken by reply so aptly spoken,
“Doubtless,” said I, “what it utters is its only stock and store
Caught from some unhappy master whom unmerciful Disaster
Followed fast and followed faster till his songs one burden bore—
Till the dirges of his Hope that melancholy burden bore
Of ‘Never—nevermore’.”

But the Raven still beguiling all my fancy into smiling,
Straight I wheeled a cushioned seat in front of bird, and bust and door;
Then, upon the velvet sinking, I betook myself to linking
Fancy unto fancy, thinking what this ominous bird of yore—
What this grim, ungainly, ghastly, gaunt, and ominous bird of yore
Meant in croaking “Nevermore.”

This I sat engaged in guessing, but no syllable expressing
To the fowl whose fiery eyes now burned into my bosom’s core;
This and more I sat divining, with my head at ease reclining
On the cushion’s velvet lining that the lamp-light gloated o’er,
But whose velvet-violet lining with the lamp-light gloating o’er,
She shall press, ah, nevermore!

Then, methought, the air grew denser, perfumed from an unseen censer
Swung by Seraphim whose foot-falls tinkled on the tufted floor.
“Wretch,” I cried, “thy God hath lent thee—by these angels he hath sent thee
Respite—respite and nepenthe from thy memories of Lenore;
Quaff, oh quaff this kind nepenthe and forget this lost Lenore!”
Quoth the Raven “Nevermore.”

“Prophet!” said I, “thing of evil!—prophet still, if bird or devil!—
Whether Tempter sent, or whether tempest tossed thee here ashore,
Desolate yet all undaunted, on this desert land enchanted—
On this home by Horror haunted—tell me truly, I implore—
Is there—is there balm in Gilead?—tell me—tell me, I implore!”
Quoth the Raven “Nevermore.”

“Prophet!” said I, “thing of evil!—prophet still, if bird or devil!
By that Heaven that bends above us—by that God we both adore—
Tell this soul with sorrow laden if, within the distant Aidenn,
It shall clasp a sainted maiden whom the angels name Lenore—
Clasp a rare and radiant maiden whom the angels name Lenore.”
Quoth the Raven “Nevermore.”

“Be that word our sign of parting, bird or fiend!” I shrieked, upstarting—
“Get thee back into the tempest and the Night’s Plutonian shore!
Leave no black plume as a token of that lie thy soul hath spoken!
Leave my loneliness unbroken!—quit the bust above my door!
Take thy beak from out my heart, and take thy form from off my door!”
Quoth the Raven “Nevermore.”

And the Raven, never flitting, still is sitting, still is sitting
On the pallid bust of Pallas just above my chamber door;
And his eyes have all the seeming of a demon’s that is dreaming,
And the lamp-light o’er him streaming throws his shadow on the floor;
And my soul from out that shadow that lies floating on the floor
Shall be lifted—nevermore!

By Edgar Allan Poe